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[av_heading heading=’ In school, some of the most important lessons are the most subtle. Acceptance is one of the most important skills a child will learn. School should is a place that should encourage compassion, understanding, and tolerance. Peer pressure is a fact. It’s crucial that children seek an ally and be an ally for others. Do you have any suggestions for your school to help your child learn tolerance?’ tag=’h2′ style=’blockquote modern-quote modern-centered’ size=” subheading_active=” subheading_size=’15’ padding=’10’ color=” custom_font=” av-medium-font-size-title=” av-small-font-size-title=” av-mini-font-size-title=” av-medium-font-size=” av-small-font-size=” av-mini-font-size=” admin_preview_bg=”][/av_heading]
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There’s A Lot For Kids To Deal With
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Kids face a lot of bullying:
- Body features
- Family
- In-group bigotry
- Homophobia
- Culture
These can be conveyed by other children, or inadvertently, by the adults that surround him. Let’s take a closer look at these biases as well as possible solutions.
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Body Features
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- Physical Features
- Disabilities
- Illness
Possible Solutions:
- Teach children age-appropriate conflict resolution techniques
- Respond to the bully. “Own your identity”
- Create a safety net among friends and family
- Check your school’s handbook for “anti-harassment” policies
- Address the disability via a speaker. Allow the kids to ask questions. Seek special “buddies” for the child.
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Family
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Non-conventional family types should be welcomed:
- Guardians vs. Parents
- Grandparents as caretaker
- Single parent
- Same-sex parents
Possible Solutions:
- “Parent’s” night can be changed to “Family” night to welcome inclusivity
- Ask for an interpretation when you hear any adult or child make a controversial comment. That may make the person think twice before doing it again.
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In-Group Bigotry
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Sometimes, the prejudice comes from within a specific cultural group!
Possible Solutions:
- Affirm your pride in your ethnicity
- Challenge in-group stereotypes
- Teach children age-appropriate conflict resolution techniques
- Address negative comments
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Homophobia
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Kids may be faced with homophobic or bigoted language on the playground and away from adults.
Possible Solutions:
- Teach children age-appropriate conflict resolution techniques
- Roleplay to create a sense of empathy
- Adults should immediately address slang or inappropriate language. Teachers should immediately stop their current lesson and start a new one
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Culture
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Stereotypes can be shown in how you think a specific ethnicity acts, eats, or thinks. Even something as subtle as not understanding correct name pronunciation underscores stereotypes.
Possible Solutions:
- Adults should lead the way in ensuring they know how to pronounce names correctly
- Lesson plans should include the positive aspects of diversity
- Children should create a safety net of family and friends
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